How to find your birthstone and life stone

If you have ever wondered which gem is truly "yours", the answer usually starts with your birthstone, the stone traditionally linked to your month of birth. It is a centuries-old custom rather than anything medical, but it is the easiest, most personal way to choose a first crystal. Below you will find the full month-by-month list, the difference between traditional and modern birthstones, and a few tips on wearing yours.

What is a birthstone?

A birthstone is the gem associated with the month you were born, a tradition with roots in antiquity and formalised by jewellers in the early twentieth century. People keep it as a small token of identity, a little like a lucky charm. It carries symbolism only, never a promise to heal.

Birthstones month by month

Traditional vs modern birthstones

You will sometimes see two stones listed for the same month. That is because the old folklore lists were revised by the jewellery trade in 1912 and updated since, partly by availability. Garnet for January or amethyst for February are remarkably stable, while months like June or December often show a traditional choice alongside a modern alternative. Neither is more "correct", so pick the one that speaks to you.

How to wear your stone

Start with a single stone rather than a full set. Worn as a natural stone bead bracelet on the wrist, or simply kept in a pocket, it stays close without fuss. You can layer more later as your taste grows. To explore each gem on its own, browse our crystal collection, sorted stone by stone.

Frequently asked questions

What if I do not like my birthstone?

Then choose another. The month chart is a starting point, not a rule. Many people prefer the stone tied to their zodiac sign or simply the colour they are drawn to. Your stone should feel like yours.

Can I have more than one?

Absolutely. A common pairing is one grounding stone and one heart stone, and plenty of people rotate theirs with the seasons. There is no limit beyond your own taste.

How do I clean a stone?

Rinse it under clear water and dry it gently to remove dust. Keep perfume and household chemicals off the surface. Some like to set stones in daylight, which is tradition rather than a requirement.

Do birthstones have a proven effect?

No. There is no scientific evidence of any therapeutic effect. Birthstones and crystals belong to symbolism and felt wellbeing, and never replace medical advice.